Ah, okay. Now I'm with ya lol.
Alright, lets check a few things out real quick just to double check on some things. When you hook the 3GX up to your computer, what does the firmware version say? Is it 4.0 as you say? The program at the very top may say 4.0, but what does it say in the lines below it?
The reason I ask is, 3.1 HATES to be on the ground. Tips every time. 4.0 is better, but still has some issues. Mainly in the tail.
As for the AR7200BX vs Ikon, that can be summed up on whether you want to use a computer to program it or not. If you want to use a computer, get an Ikon. If you want something where you can easily do everything on the gyro, then get the BX. I have both but have only flown the BX, and it's just super stable and does exactly what you tell it to. The only reason I have the Ikon is because my 600N needs a governor, and the BX doesn't have one. This is a nitro, so if you are flying electric, you don't need to worry about this.