I wish I knew that Tx as I could help out on that part.
Since you are using a flybar, you can go into your servo endpoints and set the max travel. High and low stick, the swash should remain perfectly level. This means, your aileron and pitch servos will have a lower value than the elevator. One thing you want to do is make sure from the center screw on the servo arms (and the bellcranks) to the ball link are the same distance. Meaning, the bell crank for the aileron and pitch servos (the metal part that the two rods connect to), the screw that they pivot on, measure from teh center of that screw to the center of the ball link. That measurement should be the same as the elevator servo arm from the screw that holds the arm on to the ball link.
Hope that made sense.
As for your picture on the head at mid stick, the swash it still a little too low. those washout arms should be perfectly even with each other.
I don't know if you have watched my complete flybar head setup, but it will help with setting this helicopter head up. Let me know if you have any other questions.
Complete Flybar Head Setup - YouTube