You're so right. I have seen my friend, and once roommate actually cry. Diving was his hobby and every time he got back from the Keys, he always brought back some kind of beautiful fish that cost big $$$$ to put in his tank. I came home from work one evening to a grown man crying and a 100-gallon tank full of dead exotic fish that he caught over the years. Long story short, I turned around and got out of there, and disappear for the evening.None of the ways will be cheap, and definitely not easy. Just one of the downsides to a reef tank.