Phil,
You touched on the 'club politics' issues that are one of the reasons i just cant be bothered with clubs. Strange thing i've found is that the guys who make most noise on a political level are usually the ones who fly least, or not at all, so the ridiculous rules they dream up dont affect them at all!. My father used be chairman of the local club back in Middlesbrough for several years when i was a lad and the crap he had to put up with from certain individuals was unbelievable. Personally I cant be bothered with it all, i just want to go fly and if possible shoot the breeze with a few likeminded RC enthusiasts.
The downside of flying where I do is that lately I'm often flying on my own. My regular flying buddy has been ill so doesnt get out as much, and some of the guys who used to show up quite often are too busy with work and young families.